As some of my readers know or have gathered from my blog description ... I was a player among lesbians. Hell it was easy as I traveled once a week to different cities for work related presentations.For the first few years I used local gay bars to hook up with women. Years later, when myspace and facebook were born, I used them for my booty calls.It has only been recently, since meeting hottie, that I've actually managed to be in a monogamous relationship. I no longer have a myspace page or a facebook page out of respect for hottie.Now I have to ponder where the hell I'm going with this ...Oh, right! Ok.Being in a, gulp, committed relationship definitely has its perks. I get nookie anytime and anywhere I want it. Ok so that is its perk.Kidding hottie, kidding!It hasn't been easy and I honestly think I would benefit from joining 'recovering players anonymous' or RPA. Actually hottie would too! I know for a fact her list of booty calls is longer than my list.